Did you know that you can love the life you have right now, while you create the life you desire? You can...but there is an art to it, and I’ll share it with you in this post. However, first I’d like to clear up some misconceptions.
Have you ever felt like everyone else had the key to happiness except you? That’s because social media is lying to you, making you feel left out. Maybe you feel like you didn’t get the invite to happiness or the memo. Is that right? Well it’s just not true. There was no memo. Just society and social media tricking you into believing there was.
Don’t believe it. In this blog post, I’ll reveal what you need in order to love your life.
Not everyone has the perfect body, the perfect marriage, the perfect kids, perfect meals, or the perfect house. In fact, rare is the person who has all of these things in tack. Most of us have strengths and areas were we excel, but most of us are also deficient somewhere in our lives. If we are not careful...that deficiency can outweigh all the strengths and talents we have.
You are not the problem. There are two major problems in the world today that contribute to our happiness, unhealthiness, and it’s the reason why some people are financially broke.
Those two major problems are society and social media. The evil bully society tells you what your life should look like, what you should look like, what to buy, where to go, what career to have and even how to raise your children.
Society penalizes you if you don’t follow their rules or societal norms. A few people fall in line and society uses them as examples to make you feel small, ashamed, and left out. Society is a bully that needs to be dealt with, and I’m going to tell you how to deal with society.
The evil troll social media fools you into believing a fairytale. And it’s so unnecessary. There is no fairytale, the Joneses don’t exist, and there is now perfect life. There is only the life that you deeply desire and because society and social media have told you what you should want...you don’t even really know your desires. So let me help you turn away from social media and into yourself to discover your true heart’s desire. Let me help you turn off the negative social media feed.
The tricks that society and social media have played created 3-major blocks. I am going to tell you what they are first because the only way to get over them is to identify them. Awareness is the first step to changing anything. Then I’ll tell you how to overcome these blocks.
The 3-things blocking your happiness are:
The number one cause of your unhappiness is comparison. That comparison causes you to complain about your life. You scroll through your social media feed seeing pictures of happy couples, single people partying, and children with straight As doing talented things. You scroll even more and you see pictures of delicious meals and beautifully decorated homes that make you feel ashamed.
You are comparing yourself to others and complaining about your unfulfilling life. But that is only part of the problem. The real problem is that you are comparing your blooper reel to their highlight reel or trailer. Think about it, would you go see a movie if the trailer was full of bloopers. Of course not. That’s why they show you the highlights.
You’re comparing your whole story to part of their story. You see a picture of one corner in their house and you see your entire house….and all the repairs that need to be done. You see the gift their partner bought them and you see the frustration your partner brings you. Well, they have frustration too.
You don’t know if they have credit card debt, family fights, money disputes, or even self-doubt. Chance are they have things they aren’t proud of, but they don’t post that stuff on social media. You know why? Because they want you to envy them...not avoid them.
You are not alone. While you’re comparing yourself to them and complaining about your life, they are comparing themselves to you and complaining about their lives. Society and social media just failed to inform you that everyone is chasing the same impossible fairytale that doesn’t exist.
Once you scroll long enough and take in enough TV commercials you begin to doubt yourself. For as long as you can remember society has governed your life and for that reason you don’t know yourself and you don’t really know what you want. And what makes it even worse is that you can’t talk about it because you feel weak, afraid, and left out.
You don’t know who you are, you don’t know what you want, and you don’t know how to be vulnerable without feeling weak.
The truth is you were born confident. Society and social media slowly chipped away at that confidence and left you with self-doubt. You may not even remember feeling confident. If you join my masterclass I can show you where to find your confidence.
You can feel confident financially and romantically by first discovering who you are, deciding what you want for yourself without the influence of society, and then shift your focus to your plan rather than the Joneses plan. The Joneses may not even have a plan, so why are you following or envying them. Trust yourself.
People are hurting because they keep doing the same things expecting a different result. Einstein said this is the definition of insanity. In actuality it’s the definition of humanity. The human brain is wired to protect you. And it does that by sticking to the familiar rather than going toward the unfamiliar.
Most of us think it’s our fault that we keep having the same thoughts, feelings, and behaviors but it’s really our brain’s fault and the programming that society has set in place.
We can reprogram ourselves but we don’t know that because society doesn’t tell us that. It keeps telling us we are alone, unhappy, and the only way to become happy is to play their game. But nobody is really good at that game so we all lose.
Einstein also said you can’t use the same thinking to get out of a problem that you use to get into it. This is true. Changing your brain is the next step in changing your life. Once you have awareness of your blocks the next step is to get guidance on removing the blocks.
Another lie that society has feed us and our parents and their parents is that we have to work hard. This is a control mechanism. If they keep us working hard we will be too tired to notice that life is easy for the ones at the top.
You don’t have to work hard. The key is doing heart work, with genousity, and empathy and you will have everything your heart desires. You will love your life, you will attract your true heart’s desire, and you will feel good about it. That good feeling will multiply and allow you to create more of what you want...letting go of the programming, the complaining, the comparisons, and most importantly the self doubt.
You probably don’t believe me. That’s how good society is at programming you. It has removed the idea that there are any other options then working hard. What if I could show you why heart work is better than hard work? Would you stop believing in society and follow your own dreams?
What if I could also show you how to stop comparing and start repair your mindset, your money, your relationship, and your life. In my masterclass I’m going to give you the first steps to gaining confidence, self-awareness, and control.
I’ll give you the keys to happiness and help you get on your path to prosperity. At the end of the masterclass, I’ll give you one thing you can start doing, one thing you can stop doing, and one thing you can continue doing to win at the game of life.
After the masterclass, I’ll give you a way to continue on the path to prosperity. I lead a 21-day journey that shifts your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It includes an additional month of coaching to keep you on track so that you never have to be bullied by society or tricked by social media ever again.
You’ll be empowered, informed, and inspired to take action. If you are afraid to do it on your own. NO WORRIES…you are not alone. There is a group of powerful achievers like you joining the masterclass and going on to the Crash Course in Prosperity that includes the 21-day journey.
1-Small Change at a Time
Everything you need you have inside of you already. So it’s possible to become a version of yourself that you can really be proud of. In fact, with the right guidance it’s easy.
Ask yourself the right questions and you’ll get better answers. Like, what’s going well? Who do I have to be to feel more confident, how would I like to show up in the world, or what’s my idea of prosperity? I’ll help you find the answers to these questions plus:
Join me and one powerful group of achievers on this transformational journey to feeling more confident financially and romantically. Here are the steps to feeling more confident financially and romantically starting today. Do this:
Start with the next masterclass, register here. After the one-hour masterclass join the Crash Course in Prosperity, which includes the 21-day journey. It’s the fastest way to get on the path to happiness and the best way to stay there. Click here, if you’d like to join me and one powerful group of achievers on a transformational journey to feeling more confident financially and romantically.
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Learn to Love the life you have while you create the life you desire. Increase the love and money in your life. Join me on the masterclass and in the 21-Day Crash Course in Prosperity to become more confident financially and romantically.
I’ll show you how to stop comparing and start repairing your mindset, your money, your relationships, and your life.
Are you ready to go from complaining and comparing to controlled and confident...
Remember these takeaways
Cause of unhappiness - complaining, comparison and misconceptions
Where the problem lies - society is a bully and social media is a liar
You’re not alone - many achievers like you have felt left out, alone, and overworked.
What you can do about it - be a lifelong learner, show your authenticity
I look forward to seeing you become a prosperity pro (a Prospro) I’ll see you in the club.
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